The implicit value of wanting someone who is wanted by others has to do with a desire to be uncomfortable, or to feel alive in the knowing that at any moment, something or someone could usurp the level of attachment you have to someone else. Or at least challenge it. And we want to face it this way to know that what we feel is real. Every spectrum of it. Insecurity. Trust. 

It also has this gravity of bravado, showmanship, slight ownership, and a reflective value.

The saying "you are the company you keep" can fly in this space of understanding implicit value in this way. Its also the high vibratory feeling that is present when in the presence of lofty persons. There is an uncontrolled confidence that, I believe, is contained in the aura of the person that has been created or enhanced by the other encounters they have had with other people who either feel the same way about their implicit value or see the high value in others.

This creates value. Intrinsically we must know it for ourselves, show it, and then others will respond accordingly.

Is all value created equal?

What creates value?